Relationship Strategist
ACE Principles-Build the Marriage You Were Meant to Have
For 29 years, Mike Africa Jr. has lived the principles he teaches. ACE — Alignment, Coordination, Efficacy — is the framework that transforms relationships from surviving to thriving.
The Framework
Three Principles. One Unshakeable Foundation.
Alignment
A healthy, long-lasting marriage doesn't happen by accident. It takes two people making a solid plan to build a life together and move in the same direction — spiritually, financially, and relationally. Alignment is not agreement on everything; it is clarity of mission on what matters most.
Coordination
Coordination is the daily practice of the partnership to carry out the mission. It is dividing responsibility, communicating and showing up for each other to ward off intrusions.
Efficacy
Efficacy is the belief — backed by evidence — that your relationship can produce the outcomes you want. It is the confidence that your effort will yield results. Do the necessary things to achieve your goals.
Mike Africa, Jr. - Certified Relationship Coach
29 Years of Marriage. A Lifetime of Lessons.
Mike Africa Jr. has been married since 1997. And it's been fun, easy and still getting better — because he lives by a ACE Principles. As a Relationship Strategist, Mike works with singles and couples who are serious about building something that lasts. His approach is strategic, data-informed, and rooted in the lived experience of a man who has done the work.
"Building healthy marriages is building healthy families and communities. Everything that's good about a child is elevated when they come from a strong parental structure. Everything that's not so good is also elevated when they come from weakened family structures."
— Mike Africa Jr.
Services
Strategic Support for Every Stage
Relationship Strategy
Whether you are single and preparing, or married and navigating complexity, Mike's relationship strategy sessions give you a clear, actionable plan. No generic advice — just a framework built around your specific situation.
1-on-1 sessions · Couples intensives · Pre-marital strategy
Explore Relationship StrategyFinancial Coaching
Money is one of the top stressors in any relationship. Mike's financial coaching helps couples and individuals build financial alignment — shared goals, clear systems, and the habits that create generational wealth.
Budget strategy · Debt elimination · Wealth-building plans
Explore Financial CoachingThe family is the first institution. Build it like one.
What Clients Say
Results That Speak
"Mike doesn't just give you advice — he gives you a strategy. After our sessions, my husband and I finally had a shared language for our marriage. That changed everything.
"I came to Mike as a single man who kept making the same mistakes. He helped me understand what I was actually looking for — and how to become the person who could keep it.
"The financial coaching piece was a game-changer. We had been arguing about money for years. Mike helped us see it wasn't about money — it was about alignment.
Ready to Build Something That Lasts?
Strong marriages don't happen by accident. They are built with intention, strategy, and the right support. Book a consultation with Mike and take the first step.